My wife has been playing online games for about 4 months now. She averages 8-10 hours of screen time. She has gotten very personal with 3 guys from her game. She is now Facebook friends with them, and has hours of talk with them a day. She has chosen to play with these friends over me, and our children, hurting all of us to be picked over like that. I ahve now found out that she had an online affair with one of these men. I ahve asked her numerous times to not get personal, to cut down on game time, and now I am the bad person. Even after the online fling, I asked her to now be done with these guys, and she cant give them up. They are like her best friends now, and she needs to talk to them daily.